Monday, September 27, 2010

Mt Lowe Memorial

      This is where the can is placed on Mt. Lowe.  This is where we spread some of Ron's ashes.
    Sheila read us what she had wrote on the picture of the old lookout about Ron and her visit to the can last summer .


                      Jason and Randy spreading some of Ron's ashes on Mt. Lowe.

    All of us on Mt Lowe.. except the photographer, Miss Ashley.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

love, me

Ron always left me notes here and there and always signed them love, me. In 2006 when he left to go hunting with the boys and my sister Linda and I moved the rv thru three states, he left me another note. It said missing you already, love me, xoxoxo. I found that note Saturday September 25th as I was going thru things in his drawer. It took me back to the song played at my mothers memorial. Love Me, by Colin Raye. Here are the lyrics:
I read a note my grandma wrote back in nineteen twenty-three.
Grandpa kept it in his coat, and he showed it once to me. He said,
"Boy, you might not understand, but a long, long time ago,
Grandma`s daddy didn`t like me none, but I loved your Grandma so."

We had this crazy plan to meet and run away together.
Get married in the first town we came to, and live forever.
But nailed to the tree where we were supposed to meet, instead of her
I found this letter, and this is what it said:

If you get there before I do, don`t give up on me.
I`ll meet you when my chores are through;
I don`t know how long I`ll be.
But I`m not gonna let you down, darling wait and see.
And between now and then, till I see you again,
I`ll be loving you. Love, me.

I read those words just hours before my Grandma passed away,
In the doorway of a church where me and Grandpa stopped to pray.
I know I`d never seen him cry in all my fifteen years;
But as he said these words to her, his eyes filled up with tears.

If you get there before I do, don`t give up on me.
I`ll meet you when my chores are through;
I don`t know how long I`ll be.
But I`m not gonna let you down, darling wait and see.
And between now and then, till I see you again,
I`ll be loving you. Love, me.
Between now and then, till I see you again,
I`ll be loving you. Love, me.

-------------, Sheila

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Laid to rest

It was a great day in the mountains, we scattered Dad's ashes today up top of Mt. Lowe. It was clear enough on the hike up and for a bit when we reached the summit to see quite a ways. The fog engulfed us during our ceremony almost as if the mountains themselves were giving us a hug and welcoming my father to his eternal resting place. We fired off 20 rounds to let the mountains know that Dad was there and passed two cans of Busch Light around to share. Then it began to rain. We didn't mind, we hiked down and hung around visiting with friends and family. We buried a folders coffee can and filled it with pictures messages and mementos of Dad. If anyone ever wants to go up, we can give easy directions to the trail, and tell you where the memorial can is buried. With us today were: Sheila, Randy, Jason, Becky, Trudy, Ashley and Hunter Ping, Kenny Pickner, Cameron Frable, Travis Little, Steve and Julie Fagan as well as their grandson Noah, Darrin and Brendon McAra and Robert Hall. The remainder of Dad's ashes are being held and part will be scattered down at Weatherly Creek next 4th of July, and the rest will wait until Mom has passed and we will mix them together and scatter them around the tree at the Oxford Family Ranch where Everette and Lydia (Sheila's Parents) are. Again, we appreciate all of the calls, cards, flowers, messages, and comments on this blog.  We will post pictures of today soon.           Jason

Monday, September 13, 2010

Ron Ping's life

Ron Ping Obituary.

Ron Ping was born 12/30/1944 to Evelyn and Roy Ping in St. Joseph, Missouri. He moved to Oregon with his family at the age of 18 in 1962. In 1973 he met his future wife Sheila. Moving to the Portland area in 1976 he owned and operated Ron Ping's Oasis Tavern in Forest Grove. Deciding to start a family, he and Sheila sold the tavern and bought a house in Eagle Creek in 1977. Randy was born in 1978 and his favorite son Jason came along two years later in 1980. (Keep in mind that Jason is typing this)


Ron moved his family to Boring in 1985. He found a nice chunk of land with a few acres, a couple barns and an inground pool and hot tub. He ended up with some great neighbors that grew to become very close friends. Selling the house in 2003 after raising his boys he retired in 2005 from Tri-Met.

After traveling through Europe for seven weeks he returned to begin a new journey in his 40 ft. RV accompanied by his wife and sister in law Linda. They spent two years traveling across the United States and Canada. Returning to Oregon in July of 2007 they spent their time with family and friends working part time preparing for their next adventure. Since his diagnosis with Cancer in May of 2010 he was able to spend precious time with his family, friends, and most important to him, his wife of 36 years.

He felt fortunate that he was able to say his goodbyes to those closest to him. He expressed that he felt fortunate to have lived such a full life.

He will be missed by many. He is survived by his wife, Sheila, sons Randy and Jason, Brother Glen, and sisters Patty, Cathy and Teri. Also dear to him were his two daughter in laws Becky and Trudy and his grand children, Ashley and Hunter.

If you have any comments, stories, or messages for Ron, you are encouraged to honor his family with your comments on this blog.

Ron- if the shoe fits!! April, 2010

Ron and Sheila- hiking w/ Linda, hard to get all three in same picture-lol

Ron, rock climbing- Cabo San Lucas May 2009

Ron and Sheila- outside of Bryce Canyon

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Ron and Sheila, the 40 ft rv with tow car and kayaks- colorful?

Ron, in Oatman Arizona, had to have a shot of this

2 grandpas with Hunter- Ron and Monty

lots of fish- Mazatlan

Ron and Becky-daughter in law, hike up to lighthouse in Mazatlan, Mexico

Jason (before losing his weight) Aug 2009 w/ his dad

Ron and Randy, Mazatlan swordfish, 2008- 2 months in Mexico-awesome!

Ron and Sheila, April 2010

Ron and Sheila, outside Flagstaff Arizona, was cold that day

4th of July- camping at smith river 2009

Ron and Hunter, being silly at Randy's bday dinner

Ron at Bandolier

Ron with Grandaughter Ashley, April 2010

the pumpkin patch, 3 generations, Ron, son Jason and grandson Hunter

Ron, Sheila and son Randy- Astoria 2009

Ron w/ siblings, L to R Patty, Glen, Teri, Ron and Cathy

Ron in Cabo, Mexico, May 2009

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Ron Ping Obituary.

Ron Ping was born 12/30/1944 to Evelyn and Roy Ping in St. Joseph, Missouri. He moved to Oregon with his family at the age of 18 in 1962. In 1973 he met his future wife Sheila. Moving to the Portland area in 1976 he owned and operated Ron Ping's Oasis Tavern in Forest Grove. Deciding to start a family, he and Sheila sold the tavern and bought a house in Eagle Creek in 1977. Randy was born in 1978 and his favorite son Jason came along two years later in 1980. (Keep in mind that Jason is typing this)


Ron moved his family to Boring in 1985. He found a nice chunk of land with a few acres, a couple barns and an inground pool and hot tub. He ended up with some great neighbors that grew to become very close friends. Selling the house in 2003 after raising his boys he retired in 2005 from Tri-Met.

After traveling through Europe for seven weeks he returned to begin a new journey in his 40 ft. RV accompanied by his wife and sister in law Linda. They spent two years traveling across the United States and Canada. Returning to Oregon in July of 2007 they spent their time with family and friends working part time preparing for their next adventure. Since his diagnosis with Cancer in May of 2010 he was able to spend precious time with his family, friends, and most important to him, his wife of 36 years.

He felt fortunate that he was able to say his goodbyes to those closest to him. He expressed that he felt fortunate to have lived such a full life.

He will be missed by many. He is survived by his wife, Sheila, sons Randy and Jason, Brother Glen, and sisters Patty, Cathy and Teri. Also dear to him were his two daughter in laws Becky and Trudy and his grand children, Ashley and Hunter.

If you have any comments, stories, or messages for Ron, you are encouraged to honor his family with your comments on this blog.